Woo Feminism... Remix by Non Pratt

Remix
Written by Non Pratt
Contemporary, Realistic Fiction
Published in Australia August 1st 2015
304 Pages
RATING ★★★
From the author of Trouble comes a new novel about boys, bands and best mates.

Kaz is still reeling from being dumped by the love of her life... Ruby is bored of hearing about it. Time to change the record.

Three days. Two best mates. One music festival. Zero chance of everything working out.
Best friends Karizma and Ruby are embarking on an epic adventure of boys, bands and learning the value of female friendship. Both Kaz and Ruby are newly single, with Kaz and former boyfriend Tom having called it quits only a month prior. He declared that their relationship was little more than a friendship, while Kaz was left utterly heartbroken and still pining for the lad they call Rugby Tom, the kind of boy you take home to meet your parents. Ruby is the wild girl who caught her boyfriend in the embrace of another and didn't hesitate to walk away. She refuses to think about Stu and declares the Remix Festival weekend a chance to both start again. Best friends, boys and rocking bands to cure a heartache is in order.

One sleazy rock star, two former boyfriends, one moment of regrettable sex and a new girlfriend you're expected to babysit later, Kaz and Ruby will have lived a weekend to remember. Old flames rekindled, new loves discovered, finding yourself and realising that life isn't defined by your past mistakes.

MY THOUGHTS

Remix was an entertaining read that not only shows the turmoil of friendship, but how we are all irrevocably flawed. But rather than take issue with how we make mistakes, often over and over, it celebrates our differences and how we grow from our misdemeanors. Kaz and Ruby may be best friends, but the two girls couldn't be more different. While Kaz is quiet and pines for former boyfriend Tom, Ruby is a wild child who isn't afraid to put herself back on the market. Or is she? The musical festival plays a very small part of the storyline, but focuses on the lives of a small group of friends, the girls, Ruby's brother and his boyfriend and the relationships they form. One of the biggest flaws I find in young adult, is the unrealistic portrayal of teen relationships, and while not all teens are sexually active, many are and Remix showcases teens who are perhaps not ready to deal with the maturity that comes along with adult relationships.

It also touches on issues such as cheating and the moral dilemma between suspecting someone isn't single, and having it confirmed he or she is attached. Kaz is single, and refuses to believe that former boyfriend Tom has already moved on, so she doesn't ask and it makes for an incredibly uncomfortable situation. Although morally Kaz should feel ashamed, she isn't the one who should be feeling guilty. It's a fine line that will divide readers and raise discussion about loyalty. Although Remix is sex positive with Kaz's mother promoting sexual health, I think the sexual situations the girls both found themselves in was anything but positive. The experience of regretful sex in both cases adds to their journey of growth, showing yet again how flawed we all are.

Thank goodness Kaz meets Sebastian. He's absolutely lovely and just what the storyline needed. A positive beginning of what could possibly be a new relationship.

THE VERDICT

The emotion of it's characters, their flaws and how we learn from our mistakes is what makes Remix so emotionally raw and realistic. It's the passion and lives beyond the music that makes Remix compelling, the lines that are crossed, the chances taken. It's teen life at it's worse... And best.

NON PRATT SHARES... HOW BEING A FEMINIST AFFECTS MY WRITING
Feminism is having a moment. Or at least, it feels like that since I read Caitlin Moran’s How to Be a Woman and realised that I was a feminist. It’s a lot like Neo in The Matrix choosing the red pill over the blue. Once you’re in, you don’t just see feminism everywhere, you see the need for it: the disparity in pay, in treatment, in success; the lack of female roles in films, female names on prize lists, female politicians in parliament.

Men and women are treated differently when they should be treated as equals. It’s a simple principle, but as is often the case with the simplest concepts, people have a hard time agreeing on how to action it. At times it feels as if feminism spends more time looking to itself than looking to the society it wants to change.

YA, written by women (and men) who often place teen girls at the heart of the story, is already a fertile ground for feminist sensibilities. As one of these authors, I’m throwing my own voice into the chorus and I don’t mind if we’re not all singing from exactly the same hymn sheet. (I’m not here to tell other people how to be feminist. It’s enough that you are one.) But, for the record, here’s the one I sing from:

My female characters can save themselves / other girls / boys.
My female characters can be saved by boys… but they probably won’t be.)
If I have girls tearing each other down, I will also have them building each other up.
If my female characters consent to sex it is because they think they will enjoy it. (Although that doesn’t always mean they do…)
If a character is going to cast aspersions on girls for having casual sex, another character will cast aspersions on boys who do the same.
If I write what seems like a gender stereotype, it will be a decision, not a default. Fathers can be competent around the house and mothers in the workplace. Some school girls can be good at maths, some school boys at art. No activity is off limits because of gender alone.
I will think of every character as a person before I think of them as anything else.
I’m an optimist, a big believer in writing the world as a hybrid of the way it is and the way you want it to be. Eventually, one will become the other.
ABOUT NON
Non Pratt grew up in Teesside and now lives in London. After graduating from Trinity College Cambridge, Non decided to work in children's publishing. Since then she has worked at Usborne as a non fiction editor and fiction publisher at Catnip. She now writes full time

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30 comments

  1. I think everybody can benefit from reading this book. Sounds like powerful lesson on equality and learning from differences. This sounds like a good book for growing teens, too!

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    1. It truly was Sarah and especially that they were all so flawed. A reminder to teens that no one is perfect and it's how you learn and grow from your mistakes.

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  2. I'm not particularly a feminist (and didn't know all of the facts that went into it until now) it really makes me want to research it more and learn more about it. I don't condone tearing each other down as opposed to just keeping each other up. I think this is an awesome read for young teens. It sets up a lot of character buidling and that's what kids crave these days. ;)

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    1. Brilliant comment Keionda and couldn't agree more. I don't class myself as a feminist, but believe in equality for all, regardless of race, colour, creed or sex. It really was a gutsy read that most other others probably couldn't have pulled off.

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  3. I love the sound of the authors feminism coming through in her writing, fantastic guest post Kelly! I'm flad this one explores teen love in a meaningful way. Not too sure what I think about the semi cheating though, I always have a problem with that. Lovely review hun!

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    1. I usually do too Jeann, but in Remix it isn't glorified romance, but a horrible snap decision that the characters are able to grow from. It's more realistic than teen love as such, it's friendship, sexual relationships, diverse relationships and promotes sex as healthy and part of growing up. A great read that really captured my attention.

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  4. This sounds like a great book! I think this book would be really important for young girls in high school. It sounds really good. The characters seem interesting! Fantastic review!

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    1. Thanks Theresa. It was a great read, and I loved how complex and flawed not only the characters were, but also their relationships. A real sense of friendship, even throughout the arguments and tears.

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  5. It seems to me as though Remix is a book that brims with many of the controversial issues we hear of today. I would most likely read it to gain more perspective, but I'm not much of a radical advocate so to speak. Still, the books sounds amazing, and I'm glad you enjoyed it :)

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    1. Me either Claudia, I'm more so a quieter supporter of equality. Most of the time. I really enjoyed it, it was impossible to put down.

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  6. That post from Non Pratt is amazing - I particularly love that she has girls building each other up. This book really appealed to me for that reason :D Glad you liked it!

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    1. It's one of those important reminders that we should take with us through our entire lives, and not just female friendships. But those we share our lives with who sometimes need that extra dose of support. I loved it too poppet, an awesome read wasn't it.

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  7. What a fab guest post from Non! I really enjoyed Remix, and I can't wait to see the other pearls of wisdom that come up along the blog tour. I thought the way Remix dealt with loyalty was so interesting, especially with Kaz and also Stu. I was so torn about Stu the entire time! Great review Kel :)

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    1. Me too Sophie and I'm not sure if it was deliberate, but I felt myself stereotyping his character and I think the storyline may have been geared that way too. I should never had judged a book by it's cover, pardon the pun. So glad you enjoyed it too poppet.

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  8. This is the first time I'm hearing of this book, but it sounds amazing! I love that it explores friendship first and foremost and flawed human beings! I think I would enjoy this very much.
    Wonderful review, Kelly!

    And I love that guest post from the author. That's exactly what feminism in YA books should be about. Thank you for sharing! :)

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    1. I couldn't agree more Nick. Non really nailed it and it's what most of us are searching for in our young adult titles too.

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  9. Lovely guest post and great review too! This sounds like a really well done book and I like stories that portray realistic teen characters, and that also focuses on friendship.

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    1. Hooray for realism Lauren! It seems to be lacking in young adult overall doesn't it. There's far too many big, dramatic relationships that claim love, but are only lust with little substance. Friendship and bonding is not only important in those teen years, but so many more teens can relate to those string female friendships even more so. Remix is a great example of that.

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  10. I knew I read a review of this (and automatically wrote it off). But the author sounds like a really cool person! And your review has shown that the friendship aspect might pull it off...and that portrayals of raw and realistic teen relationships are a thing. Ah, life's complicated...that's what I got from all the reviews of this book!

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    1. It really is Mawa, especially during those teen years which can really make or break a person. I love realism in young adult, not over romanticised, John Green relationships. And this could be confronting for some, but I think readers will really appreciate the ugly side of adult relationships as well as how loving they can be.

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  11. This book sounds lovely, indeed.Though I might have a problem with a character who dons blinders simply because facing reality is too painful. Sigh.

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    1. I was incredibly torn by her character too Joy. It was mentioned to her that her love interest and former boyfriend had a new girlfriend, but she wouldn't ask him in case the rumour became real. He was nothing more than an asshole and in regards to her decision, she really wasn't any better. That really was the only negative aspect for me, but thankfully it was realistic and not romanticised.

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  12. I love the sound of Non Pratt's feminism philosophy, which means I think I will be able to enjoy her book even though cheating in anything is an automatic turn off for me. I love that the characters sound so realistic! Beautiful review Kelly <3

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    1. Usually for me too Aentee, but this wasn't at all glorified and drove home the message of our mistakes not defining us. Her philosophy is incredible!

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  13. Awesome post! I love how you say this book has realistic portrayals of teens. Definitely something I would enjoy. And I love Non Pratt's message on Feminisim, definitely worth the read. Wonderful review, as always, Kelly! :D

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    1. Thanks Blessie. I really think teen relationships are nearly always unrealistic in young adult, so when a book like Remix comes along, I really hope more readers appreciate it for portraying these complex bonds that aren't necessarily love, but sexual attraction and even convenience.

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  14. GOD I SO WANNA READ SOMETHING BY NON PRATT!!!

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    1. You really need to Frannie, she's incredible!

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  15. Love your review and Non's stop on the tour! Remix sounds amazing and like my kind of book. It sounds so authentic and I'm always drawn to books that are real and allow the characters to be flawed. I'll be adding this to my TBR. Great post!

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    1. Thanks Rebecca. I'm a big fan of flawed characters and authors allowing them to make their own mistakes, but as long as there is a learning curve in there. I couldn't put it down. It felt real and gritty, and all the shitty and best parts of being young thrown in there and it worked magnificently!

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